we have a more refined perspective on how to deal with & maybe move forward in our marrital fall backs . I have seen a few small but significant changes,,,,, some positive changes in admitting & appologising if one of us has not handled things quite fairly towards the other // . we now have to deal with the chemotherapy next 5 months /// we have just started but are showing more emotional support to each other . thanks again to RUTH we are very gratefull // JERRY WILSON & LIN HOWELL